My relationship with The Boyfriend has been slow to turn the kinky corner again and in many ways I’m glad for it. We are finding our way as a couple and doing things as they feel right to us.
I’ve mentioned the biting and the spanking they seem to be the easiest to broach in the bedroom. I am not needing bit certainly looking forward to when we push a little farther and explore my masochism little more. It’s such an odd headspace for me right now – I’m not craving a beating the way I hear many subs lament about them. I want one because I know I like it. I know it turns me on but by the same token if it doesn’t happen I won’t feel unsatisfied or disappointed.
But the control I am enjoying these days isn’t confined to my bedroom. Instead